‘The Girl from Hockley’, Kathleen Dayus, Published by Virago in 2006. Paralleling many of the issues we have found in researching family experiences in the early twentieth century, this edition of Kathleen Dayus’ life history is a compelling read.
Kathleen Dayus (nee Greenhill) was born in Hockley in 1903 into a large family living in a three storey, back-to-back house. Detailed remembrances of her early life paint a vivid picture of a harsh existence – lack of food and heating, poor clothing and parish relief. Male unemployment was commonplace and any opportunities for women to gain employment were often poorly paid.
As Kathleen approached puberty she had scant knowledge of the ‘facts of life’ and her first direct exposure to childbirth (a friend’s mother) ended tragically in the death of mother and child.
Kathleen married her first husband at 18 and had five children before the death of her husband when she herself was barely 30. Her experience of life in Hockley with several children repeated many of the elements that had been present in her own young life. Forced into work to support the family, as both her father and husband were out of work, Kathleen’s youngsters were looked after by her mother. Once again the family was interviewed by the ‘welfare’ to justify any financial support.
The book reveals Kathleen’s woeful ignorance as regards contraception with no ‘precautions’ taken until after the birth of her fifth child. The subject of sex was completely surrounded by ‘ignorance, myth and misunderstanding’ throughout the working-class community.
This detailed story continues to record the difficult decisions Kathleen had to make with regard to her children before she was able to establish a settled home for them once again.
Alison Smith, Project Researcher


























